22nd September 2019 – 25th Sunday in Ordinary time

Advice from Pope Francis

The family is a big training gym for the mutual giving and forgiveness without which no love can last for long. Without giving of oneself and without forgiving one another, love does not last; it does not endure.  In the prayer that he himself has taught us—the Our Father—Jesus has us ask the Father, “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.”  And in the end he comments: “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father also will forgive you; but if you do not forgive  others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses” (Mt 6: 14-15).  One cannot live without forgiveness—or at least, one cannot live well, especially in the family.  Every day we do wrong to one another.  We have to take stock of these mistakes, due to our frailty and our selfishness.  But what is asked of us is to heal right away the wounds that we cause, to repair immediately the threads that we break in the family.  If we wait too long it becomes too difficult.  And there is a simple secret for healing wounds and dispelling accusations.  It is this: do not let the day end without apologizing, without making peace between husband and wife, between parents and children, between brothers and sisters, between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law!  If we learn to apologise right away and to forgive one another, then wounds heal, marriage becomes stronger, and the family becomes an ever more solid house, one that withstands the impacts of our wrongdoings large and small.  And this is why there is no need to make a big speech.  A caress is enough.  One caress and everything is over; it is time to move on.  But never end the day at war!


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